Sometimes you come to an agreement with someone, and it seems that everything is fine, but after a while it turns out that it is not. You did not understand each other, and now a lot needs to be redone. Sometimes it is not difficult, and sometimes it requires huge resources. And all because of a communication failure. Today I propose to think about how to avoid this. Let's talk about general concepts of communication and specific advice, especially for remote control. Spoiler alert: it's harder to understand each other when communicating at a distance. And if you still communicate not in your native language, then it is very difficult.
Communication theory: the basics
First, let's talk about communication in general. This is not rocket science, as they say, but let's clarify better. Let's say you want to convey a message to your interlocutor and get an adequate response.
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